12 Signs You’re Turning into a Bad Boss.
It happens to everyone eventually.
“I don’t know if you’re as good of a boss as you used to be.”
That’s how one of my employees opened her one-on-one. I’d worked with her for years. I trusted her. If she was bringing up a concern, she felt strongly about it. And unfortunately, she was right.
I didn’t want to be a bad boss. I don’t think anyone does. I’ve had my share of bad managers. From the ineffective bureaucrat to the toxic bully, I’ve seen how these poor performers can destroy a team.
So you’d think I would have been more adept at guarding against the transition.
And yet, it happened. Times were stressful. I was trying to keep everything moving forward. My patience was short.
Slowly but surely, I stopped focusing on what made me a good leader. I started prioritizing the short-term. I put all of my focus on the work and little on the people doing it.
This happens to everyone at some point. Stress piles up. Crises distract us. We lose focus and slide into bad habits.
Whether it happens is somewhat inevitable. The difference is whether we can recognize and correct it. All of which starts with knowing what to look for.
